Living with Breast Cancer

I was originally diagnosed with Stage II Breast Cancer in February 2005 at the age of 34. I went in with a lump in my right breast, after an ultrasound the radiologist said it was a cyst that would need to be exasperated. I went in two days later and was told by a different doctor that it wasn’t a cyst and I was there for a biopsy. Biopsy revealed several more lumps all were cancerous.
After talking with my family, I had a lumpectomy and a sentinel biopsy. Margins were not clear and biopsy showed lymph nodes infected. Then had a masectomy, lymphodectomy, and tramsflap reconstruction. All surgeries went well and chemo was started soon after. Cytosin, Adrianmicin and Taxol. Not a great thing to be on but tests showed that I was clear.

I was for four years then out of no where in January 2009, I went under the standard yearly tests and was called in to be told that I now have Stage IV Breast Cancer Spread to the Bone, Brain, Liver, Lung and Ovaries. A year later the Brain has been cleared and tests are showing no new tumors and existing tumors shrinking. Problem is I am in pain alwaya, bones are throbbing all over, trouble breathing. Doctors just shrug and do more tests find nothing and give me more vicadin. Anyone have any thoughts?